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How to Stop Hurt Feelings From Dating
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Feeling Hurt From Dating
Did you just go out on a date and wonder how it went? Are you staying up all night wondering if he/she feels the same way you do? Are you afraid of approaching the person you like? Pretty much everyone has been in this situation at one time or another. Here’s why: The root of all pain like this comes from your imagination and an uncertainty about what to do.
Dating The Fantasy
When you like a person, you constantly think about them. You imagine yourself in a fantasy, where you go places and do things together. Your lives together are perfect. He/she is romantic, loving, kind, and does exactly what you want when you want it. The only problem is, this person doesn’t actually exist. He/she is a projection of your idealized version of the person you like. What happens when he/she does something different from how you’d imagined? You start to lose a piece of your fantasy. You’ll either feel hurt that he/she isn’t doing what you want “anymore”, and perhaps try to change that person (which will not be well received). So, to start off, try to not imagine what it’d be like, or how good it would be. This is where an intuitive mind trying to analyze tons of possibilities becomes extremely harmful. Date the real person, not the fantasy.
The other thing that happens when you think about your future together too much is that you are analyzing too deeply down one branch of the possibility tree. Other parts of your life start to shrink because all your thoughts are focused on how good it would be together. You think about having kids, raising a family, sharing lots of romantic adventures together. However, these things are way in the future. That will only happen IF he/she likes you, IF you continue to like him/her, IF you decide to have a baby, etc. There are just so many things that can change that particular possibility. So then, what happens when you break up? All your planning has been focused on the two of you being together, so when the unexpected happens, you have no alternate plan! This is when people sit at home crying, blaming the other person for not fulfilling their dreams.
Knowing Yourself
This is why you need a backup plan. What would you do if you broke up? What would you do if he/she died? This does NOT mean that you should maintain relationships with other people “in case you broke up”. That would be a horrible breach of trust. I’m talking about what you would do if you were completely alone. Say there were no people in the world, what would you do? Now say there were 2 people in the world, what would you do? Then add various #s of people and plan out what you would do. This will allow you to understand what you want better and know what to do in most of the common situations. You’ll probably still feel a bit hurt, but it won’t be the end of the world because you’ll have a life outside of the relationship. You won’t feel the “my life is coming to an end” type of pain.
Aren’t those situations of you being alone completely unlikely though? No! Not at all. Even if there are people around, you can still be alone. In fact, outside of very involved relationships, you are alone most of the time. Whenever you are focusing on yourself and don’t notice other people, it’s the same as if you were alone. Knowing what you’d do in this situation really helps you out in figuring out what you want. You have to learn to like yourself in this state because then, any kind of relationship breakup wouldn’t be so bad. Sure, you’ll feel a loss, but you’ll still have something pretty great to return to.
Key To a Healthy Relationship
That is the key to a healthy relationship actually, since even in a relationship, you’ll be alone some portion of the time. A relationship is just an extension of the economic model. You have something he/she wants, and he/she has something you want (sex, companionship, etc.) As a result, the both of you benefit each other. Over time, as the two of you trade more and more, you realize that it’ll be more efficient if you just stayed together. That’s how it is in a healthy relationship. When you don’t really know yourself and don’t have much to offer in your relationship, that’s when you become “desparate”. It’s also when the other person feel this exceeding neediness from you, which leads the the suspicion that you have much less to offer than what you’ll be getting. If that is the case, then of course the relationship would feel like the center of the world to you, as you are deriving most of your identity from your partner. It would also explain why you would feel very hurt and angry when your partner leaves, since he/she took away all that stuff you were getting.
On the other hand, if you had a strong identity outside of the relationship, then you would simply return to the happy state you were in before you made the trades. You tried a particular trade and it didn’t work out. Now you’re left with what you started with, but with more experience. Do you realize that means you’re better off than you were before you entered the relationship? Life is series of ups and downs. You’re now standing at a point higher than you were at before the relationship (and either higher or lower than when you were in the relationship depending on how you look at it).
Just stop thinking about it and start doing the things you love. The worst case scenario? You’ll never get into a relationship again and do the things you love until you die. Just be okay with that possibility. Think about it, isn’t that a great thing? Now, if a relationship happens to come along which will make you happier - Okee dokie! Sounds good to me.
A lot of pain comes as a result of not knowing yourself and what you want. That’s because not knowing creates a lot of uncertainity in situations, which paralyzes you. For example, let’s say you just had a date and you sit around wondering when the other person would call. Days pass and no call; you become worried, not knowing where you’re at. That’s a common situation that causes many people a lot of distress. The truth is, it’s very easy to deal with when you’ve planned out all the possibilities. You can say something like, if I don’t get a call within a few days, I’ll call him/her back, then don’t think about it anymore. Is thinking about it going to make the other person more likely to call? Not even a little, so why waste time thinking about something you can’t change? Just do what you’ve always been doing - living a happy life.
The old cliche advice really is the way to go. Just know what you love to do, do it, and you’ll meet people along the way.
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Let go all the expectatoin…And you will not be hurt it doesn’t matter when happen
No expectation?? That would be hurt more than what you think. At the end, you will find out you are wasting time on someone who is not worth.
I just got dumped about 2 weeks ago. and i cant stop thinking about the girl. I cant sleep very good and all i can do is dream about her. and then i wake up sweating and cant go back to sleep. she ignores most of my calls. but i think she still loves me or somthing because i saw her at a park about 4 days ago and me and her kissed. that has to mean she still loves me right? or just playing head games. what ever it is it sucks and i need some ones help.
You are in a great situation believe it or not. She may be playing mind games with you but she Does have some feelings for you if she kissed you once again. This may feel hard to resist but dont kiss her next time or show affection in the intimate category. Just be yourself. Call this the gift situation. You are taking away the gift that she enjoys secretly-you being there. When you are not being easy and letting her kiss you, she will notice this and want you back if everything works out. Dont kiss her anymore or do any hand holding or hugs. Let her know what it is like to be in your position. She may call and say what is your problem. You say, “You!” “Your the problem that I linger on about.” “The thing is, I really care about you and you dont want to pursue anything beyond that.” “I am available to you right now but in the future, I may not be there anymore so make your choice carefully” “remember, I’m here for you”. she will realize that you are not in the mood to wait for her to make up her mind and she may fall into the desperate mode and scoop you up and love you once again! Try it, you have nothing to lose. I know this will work.
Pretend she doesn’t exist.
go on a date with someone else.
if you chase after her she will know your exactly where she wants you. As soon as you stop chasing her, she will chase you. Act as if you don’t care. Even when you know you do. If not, try to see other people. Trust me there are plenty of fish in the ocean, plenty of bears in the forest, plenty of squirrels in the tree, you get the pooint…. hope i helped (:
I just found this page while i was putting all the possible keywords to get articles to ease my pain. Haven’t yet figured out the author as yet and don’t have the money to donate as of now. But I just can’t stop myself to pen down that this article( feeling hurt from dating) is so well written. I have read so many wikis, ehows, wikianswers but this is a very intelligent and a sensible approach. Hats off to the author. Would love to get his/her email address to be able to contact further. May you always shine and thanku so much for this contribution.
thanks, i just got dumped a couple days ago and i cant stop thinking about her, i suppose this will help
my girlfriend of 19 months dumped and is now going for who i thought was one of my good friends. i feel so much pain, hate, anger and mostly confusion, this really came out of nowhere. i know i need to move on from this but where do i begin?
I liked this guy for over a year and we went on a date exactly a year later. the date was for 45min only but i had a great time.. we did talk later but he was playing games, he’d call or txt to ask me out yet not confirm the date so we don’t end up meeting and I travelled for a month and came back and didn’t hear from him at all and I didn’t see the point of being in contact with him because I felt he didn’t put an effort to get in contact with me. He started spying on me by sending his PA at work to track everything I do, who I go to lunch with and who I email or txt. He even managed to get his PA to contact me once to see what Im doing and why I havent been to work for a while. He came to work today and when I looked at him I found that he was looking at me. I have to admit, I do still think about him a lot. Please help
This helps a lot
I read this article because I am in love with my best friend we were kind of in a relationship for the past year. We are more than friends because we were exclusively seeing each other just with no title. This article has great points, my sadness comes from him and I being friends still but now we are just fiends and nothing else. My problem is I’m in love with him and he wants to be single. I have been doing other things with my time but still at night I miss him most and I am always thinking about him even if I am doing things I love.
me and my bf wer together and we worked together like a house on fire, his mum dosnt want me to be with him and we have been stopped by everyone frm seein each other, i havnt hurd from him for about a week and i want to no what is going on, i no its problie difficult him tryin to get in contact buh he dosnt have a fone atm and we cant bee seen together last week when he saw me no one had any idea apart from our friends and it was fine , we are still together because i no he loves me and i love him to much to let him out ov my life, his family hate me and think im messin up his life, the police have been called and told both of us to stay away from each other, but i cant i dont no how he feels buh whenever i try and get over him i end up depressed we have been thru crap but we always get thru it, have you any advice on how i could sort everything out and stop his family from hating me? they only hate me coz they think that i smoke bad stuff and give it to him buh i dont even smoke it, she also thinks i am messin up his education , buh i was incouragin him anbd she wont let him have any contact with me or any of our freinds help plz im madley in love
I really enjoyed this article because i felt so hurt because of this guy and now i can do the things I love and try my best to get over him. Thank you!
Thank you. Helps a lot!
thank you
Thanks alot for this it really helped,both your articles are great.Thanks again.
ya, i had a boyfriend of 9th months. i actually thought he was the one for the first few nights i couldn’t sleep and the first few days i couldn’t eat the last thing on my mind was eating or sleeping. and when i seen him with another girl i mean that really hurted me i actually loved him like no other i gave him my heart and then he just dumps me and he promise me forever, girls please don’t believe any guy if they say forever is forever. i’m only 15 and i am still to young to know about love and i just relized this. yes? it hurts to see him/her with other people but its going to happen i guess all i can say is just try to play games and call a few of your friends and talk to them about your problem. that helped me, and what hurt me the most about when he dumped me i had done sexual stuff with him. i still love him but he isn’t worth my time of the day i guess and i’ll try to date other people and move on from the pass i have alot to live for and i going to make the best of it as i can.
Went out with a guy last night and for the first time ever (I’m 18) i actually felt a bond, a connection of a kind. We talked for 3 hours nonstop-he is such an interesting person. It felt very natural. This was last night and he didn’t follow up with a text yet. Didn’t hear from him since. Now am I panicking or is it a lost situation? I know I should keep my cool but it is killing me. How long should I give him before contacting him? Should I contact him at all?
I am responding to the 15 yr old girl, i feel u and i am proud of you for knowning u are to young to be in love and you need to move on. I would suggest you use protection when being with anyone the last thing you would need is to be a teenmom. I was and my life has been filled with challenges. I thought I was in love n things did not work as i expected. Now I am older and really understand what it takes to love a person I still dont have my life together but I try my best.
I like this guy who only calls me about every 3 weeks and in the mean time I dont hear anything from him. He only texts me when he wants to see me, I text him and he doesnt even return my text. When I finally see him, he acts like he really likes me. He makes me beleive that this could work and I get so depressed whenI dont hear from him all that time in between. this has been going on for over 3 months. Am I just hoping, is there anything there? or am I just hurting myself?
i really like this girl ive spent all summer talking to her and hanging out with her. every time i brought up dating she just told me she was still in love with her a* hole ex. i should have seen it coming but i didnt and now she is back together with this guy and i cant keep her off my mind and i cant stop thinking about her being hurt
I’ve been in love with my friend for 2 years. Until recently he had a girlfriend and they’ve been really close for a very long time… pretty much made for each other. but they have some issues and they broke up. me and him were together briefly but now he’s trying to win her back. I love him so much… unconditionally and completely- he’s the only person in the world I’ve ever felt this much love for… this situation has already broken my heart many times and I should have learned my lesson, but I just can’t stop loving him and any other guy I meet I compare to him
I have no idea what to do….
About 3 months ago I met this a girl through a group of my friends. Two of my best friends went out with two of her best friends. So natrually when they saw us two getting along they all wanted us two to get together. To be honest, I knew I liked her from the minute I met her. She was funny, really pretty, quirky etc… etc… We got to know eachother during the summer holiday and during that time I asked if she would like to meet up at some point. She said yeah, so we agreed to meet up and go to the cinema. She cancelled on me, she said she was busy that day. I was upset, but she did say she wanted to meet up some other day, so a few days later she tells me when shes free. So we agree to go out. She cancells on me again. Instead we go to the park with a few friends, to be honest it was a good day. That same day she tells me she does want to meet up, just the two of us. So we agree to meet up that weekend. She cancells again, saying shes ill. By this point I’m thinking “come on, can this be purely coincidental???”
So after thinking about it, I decided just to tell her how I feel about her. She tells me that she doesnt know how she feels but she does want to meet up and see where things go. After a while of not speaking to eachother she tells me she wants to meet up. So we FINALLY go out for a meal. Everything went well and she sais she wants to meet up again. We didnt see eachother for a while because she was on holiday. When she came back her 2 friends and my 2 friends, decided that we should all go on a caravaning trip in october. Things were looking great, at friends birthday party we expressed how we really felt for eachother. Everyone beleived that we were going to get together. But then I got over confident, I kept asking her when we were going to meet up, what she she was up to. In truth I kept hasseling her. And she got fed up. The final straw came when i saw her at her work, which i never should have done, why did i go see her???. She told me she wants to “just be friends”, and everything ive heard before; “its not you, its me” “at this time in my life i just dont want to be in a relationship”. I just cant get her out of my head. I feel sick. Ive felt like this before when my girlfriend cheated on me with my best-friend. I told myself id never feel like that again, because it was the worst feeling in the world. But now I feeling that way again and I hate it.
me and my girlfriend broke up after 4 years she sys she still loves me but she needs space right now i know i have to give her space but after a few weeks im gunna try and go out with her and hold back all emotion just to show her im doing ok when really ive moved back home and quit school, hopefully she see’s this and wants me back.. any advise?
I just hate this shit man. I hate falling for a girl who you think is perfect and she takes advantage of your vulnerability and fucks you over!
I just fucking hate love so much it’s like the devil in disguise. You think everything is perfect, never been happier in your life and that person take advantage of your vulnerability towards them and just do fucked up shit because they didn’t give a fuck about you to begin with. At least thats how i feel about love.
I just hate how much i love being in love. I just wish sometimes i were emotionless, it would be easier to deal with life that way. I just wish i was like Dexter Morgan sometimes, i honestly do.
i sometimes wish i was emotionless sometimes too. thanks for the article. it helps theoretically, i just hope i have some luck putting it into practice.
ill be sure to give the advice a go, but i think whats really made me feel better was seeing that im not the only one feeling this way, i very rarely fall head-over-heels for someone because of how many times iv been hurt in the past, but it doesnt make it any easier. thanks for the help.
I’m hurting pretty bad right now. I am a professional photo model and absolutely have no problem to meet and get any guy i want. I am approached everywhere I go. Guys are willing to do anything (and do, if i allow them) for me. I’ve travelled the world, done a lot, but never actually felt anything for anyone. And here we go… I met a douche-bag once. He was not even a good-lookin (not the best-looking guy at all, to be honest); no $; no stable job and so on… No romantic dates…No surprises… NOTHING. Basically, just sex. Why him?-easy and no one knows.I’d come there, hang out, have a good time and take off shortly. So, how the F… i started falling for him?! WTF is wrong w/me? He asked me to be his gf and I said YES… And I felt happy… I had some medical surgery and told him how much i need him right now. I’ve opened up, m.b. first time in my life. I became so vulnerable, so soft… Now, after my “yes” and all of other confessions-he barely calls/texts and it feels like the only time he needs me, because he needs to show off what a catch he’s got when he goes out… I feel miserable… He knows i need him and just ignores it. He does not care.
Moreover, now I’m all crazy about my phone-staring it out 24/7; I can’t sleep, eat, think about something else… The only thing, which takes my ming off him is my work. I started feel weird to go out and talk to people. I feel like i want to close myself in a box and don’t talk to anyone…
What can i do to take my mind off him?
Linda:
“I like this guy who only calls me about every…”
Well, this is not true love. The true unconditional love is something very different, you should be open with each other infinite and talk about this without a noise of resistance - you have to listen to your soul, listen to you feelings, they know everything…
From my point of view, this guy want’s to be with you only when he wants it and that’s not it - everyone deserves the best, believe me
Lorry - you have to look back to see what you’ve learned from this guy. It’s hard to talk how to take your mind off from him, but could be various things - maybe you just had some prehistoric link to clean with each other and obviously that’s ended now. You need to stay OPEN, to let better things into you… - I’ll write my story:
I had extremely hard situation myself not so long ago. I had perfect relationship (well at least I was thinking it is) that lasted around 13 years (yeah, wow, a really long time, and I was really proud on it) and I know if I wouldn’t look deeply into it, I wouldn’t be alive now anymore, as the shock was enormous… Girlfriend said that she wasn’t happy anymore, so I figured it out, if she isn’t happy with herself, no one can gives her that, including me… Well, things started to happening, when I started to let other vibrations into me, I really started on developing my inner side lately, focusing on only good things, positive thoughts, meditation, etc…
Reading this article, it’s exactly what it says - I am better of alone now if I look back… I am much much happier no and I can’t believe it. It’s true I am doing a lot of things in my life that I really love them - and that’s the strong key everyone should be focused on… The relationship shouldn’t be the center of the world. Was to me actually, but now I see it was totally wrong. YOU, YOURSELF should be the center of the world, you need to stay OPENED in this kind of things to let the new things happen to you.
So did I (I looked back to see what I’ve learned - and I really did learn a lot of good things…), and now I already meet another person, with which I had so connecting energy in the time we meet, that my mind couldn’t even think of it’s existence…
Now I really know it’s something more out there. We had hours of talking, linking that energy and connections is just crazy, love energy is so strong too…
We aren’t together though, as she just ended her relationship and she needs some time alone (we are good friends now, I guess the best), so she can clean herself and develop what she wants… My mind was blowing with questions too: what if she doesn’t wants to be with me, what if…. I am good looking enough and I know the energy I share is very positive, so I got nothing to afraid of - you just had to stop your mind there and listen to your feelings, they now right each time!
It’s really crazy for me though, as the energy overflow me every time I meet her. However, I will just stay opened unconditionally and will see what life brings me/us. If it won’t bring me love from this exact same person, I know I will meet another one with even better energy and everything, because I deserve, everyone does…
That’s the true key, stay open to yourself, let everyone knows what you think directly as you got nothing to loose. Don’t wait, just bring it out!
Hope my experience will help to anybody
i am just 18 and i’m in love with this guy whom i’m going out with.he also says he loves me a lot and wants to marry me and be with me forever.he lives in another country than mine and he is 10 years older to me.now a couple of months ago he got busy and didn’t pick up my calls or reply to my messages at all for 4-5 months.about 2 weeks ago he came online and we talked for 6 hours but still he didn’t act as if he owed me an apology for disappearing.i can’t express the whole scenario really but basically i don’t know how he feels for me.i don’t think he loves me but can’t even think why he would have a relationship with me when he isn’t even getting physical with me.i’m very confused and it really hurts being in love with this guy.help
Wow I love this article. It definitely has made me feel better about my current boyfriend. Basically he treats me like any other girl and I realized that I’m constantly doubting myself around him which makes even the times that we are together shit. I think the main point is that you have to love yourself before others can love you.
I like this article except for the fact that when you like someone and you are not sure if they like you back but they have told you but dont ask you to come over or sleep over… what do you do? and what about if you were friends with benefits before? and the girl (me) starts to like the guy tells the guy but never bugs him about it and then he finally likes her after seeing her with other guys?
I know mu situation is fucked but what do you do?
Kathryn: Depends what you want more… The other guy or that one that he didn’t realize it before. Some man hardly show their feelings… and now when it’s too late, he realized that he loves you..
but for love is never, never, never too late!
Well some of you have suggested really good things to overcome the situation, My suggestion is first belive in yourself that you’ll be strong to face anything then you’re automatically things will be fine.
Cheers
….i been with this guy….for a few months, i have done nothing but love and cherish his time and our moments….i juss came to find out he cheated on me,….ughhh, i mean, who does that? i love him deeply…and more than anybody i ever have before, not to mention he hada beautiful baby boy i love as well, so i dont only have to TRY and move on from him but his son as well… i have two VERRY important people in my life that mean so much too me…. i did end up forgiving him for the cheating….. but i just cant look at him the same way…i cant laugh with him…or smile at him..and ..im stuck, i love him and want to be with him, …. But how can i when i lost all trust…all it isnow is misery, sadness, depression…sheeesh i dont even think i ever even think about the good times anymore….!!! ADVICE ANYONE?
You MUST grieve it first. This will allow you to move on. When you are hurting, and cannot talk it out with the person involved…..WRITE down your feelings and remember…it is okay to cry. Get it all out and FORGIVE him / her. Once you forgive, you have forgiven yourself and now you can be yourself and GO FOR IT AGAIN….with caution……I have been there and it was not easy..Good luck!
P.S. If you really love hom and he has honestly said he was sorry and you really believe him….give it another try….only you have the answers and it will only work if YOU are 100% committed to your true feelings…..talk to him and let hom know how you really feel…Do not hold anything back…..tell all!
i’ve been dating a grl for 3 month now.but its lyk she does not care nd d whole stuff is just dry nd heart breaking.every tym i call her 2 talk abt it,she is always lyk she loves me too nd there’s nothing wrong with us….’m just confused….i’m smelling break-up later on although i won’t let that happen….
Hey everyone, thanks for sharing your stories. I thought I was in love, love at first sight at that. Only went on one date, she said she had a wonderful time, and said she can’t wait to go again. Then I found out she doesn’t really like me like that, and that she is still not over her ex. I thought she was the most amazing person in the world. Sigh my weak heart. Thanks again for sharing all of your stories.
Well, I was enjoying my single life for a very long time until I met HER. I have dated this girl for nearly 2 weeks in a row now. She’s 8 years older than me and I fell in love with her accidentally! You see, we met at a public dog park, where our dogs will be playing with other dogs, and the owners will interact. One day after we have gotten each other’s contact, she called me for dinner! And she asked if I could also bring her to a government department to translate the procedure for her (She is a Japanese and she couldn’t read Bahasa Malaysia.) we communicate very well though.
Since then, we’ve been out together for dinner, cinema, shopping, clubbing, dancing, each other’s house. And now, she just stopped calling me out anymore. I feel very hurt, i was unable to sleep, eat, focus on my work. I really like her and I really believe that there is something standing in between us. I’m very hurt. This article has really addressed out the problems i am facing. I guess i will just have to wait and see how things go.
i know a guy who used to like me and his friends used to tease me n stuff….then suddenly he starts avoiding me n his friends tooo…n then when i go he looks at me from the back? i dont get it…he was the one who would always flirt with me….always…he followed me to the gym and also stalked me with his friends….but we are not in the same class now…why does he avoid me???…and ignore me…and he knows i wont say anything cause he would always start on first…so how can he think that i will have something to tell him??..still he ignores me…there is something big about this??…does he like me or no?
Hey, I finshed with my boyfriend a week ago we had been with each other for about 2 years I just can’t stop think about him and texting him? This website has helped but I spend my night and days crying and I just want to be happy again I’ve tryed going out with friend and doneing somethink I love which is art but he still on my mind writeing this helped got all my feeling out! Plus I really can’t see my self with anyone else so I don’t even don’t how to move on xxx
This made me feel slightly better.
Recently I went on a date with this guy that I have been talking to since march. We FINALLY went on a date or met or “chilled” out whatever you want to call it. He paid for items bought and then we just talked the rest of the night. We ended up making out and cuddling. I messaged him the next day stating that last night was awesome and he agreed! However, he went away on a business trip the following week and I messaged him four days later, giving him space though it was not requested, and we talked normally. Gave him more space and did not message him until three days afterward on sunday asking him if I could take him out this time and I will pay. He said he might be able to on wednesday. So today I message him and I do not get a response back. Am I being too clingy/obsessive?
I also would like to mention that when he picked me up he mentioned his best friend revealed that he was having feelings for him. Which automatically shot waves of paranoia through me however he stated he likes being single.
Previously when we would talk I would not have to think twice about messaging him or anything but now I do. I remember reading something in this article about over analyzing and such.
About five months ago a man who I used to have business dealings with told me that he’s in love with me. I knew him as correct and sincere man and I’ve been always attracted by him but I wasn’t in love with him. I knew that he has a family and when I asked him about it he said that he’s separated. We live in different counties and we haven’t seen each other since then. He used to text me and send me lots of emails every day with the most beautiful words and I believed him. And little by little, day after day I felt deeply in love with him. But from time to time I felt that he’s not quite honest with me. His cell phone was almost always switched off in the evenings. And there were other little things that troubled me. Last week I received an email from him that I was sure was for another girl. The text was: “Hi dear, you remember??? Kiss you!” I didn’t understand so I asked him to explain. He said that he made “confusion”. I asked for more explanation but he said nothing. And them I wrote him that I don’t believe him any more and asked him to stop sending me emails and messages. He demanded an explanation and because we are going to meet next week I told him that I’ll explain when we see each other. And he stopped text me. He replies with only 2-3 words to my messages and emails but that’s all. And now I don’t know what is going on. I’m so much afraid of the meeting, what will happen with us and I cannot stand it any more. Did I make a mistake telling him that I don’t believe him? I don’t know what to do, what to think, I’m on my wits’ end. Please, any advice?
I’ve had feelings for my best friend for four years and he’s always kinda known and now I can see how he used that to put me down all the time and when he’s lonley I’m the one whose always there but I was looking for a way to shake these feeling but I still wanna be friends because we get along real well, and this article was exactly what I was looking for and I’m going to get over this, thanks;)
Well done!
It is the kind of thing you already know but you have to read it to finally make sense.
I never comment on blogs, it is the first time, but I felt I had to because the article is really good.
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