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Why Sex Is The Most Important Emotion
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In Think And Grow Rich, Napolean Hill had listed sex as the most important out of all the human emotions. This had always confused me a lot, as love would seem like a more important one. Love allows you to want to give to others and make them happier. Love allows you to become selfless and work for the common good of humanity. Isn’t that more important than just sex? It seemed like a far more noble emotion!
As I thought about this, I am reminded of something my girlfriend had said a while back: “When you only want something, you can live without it. When you absolutely need something, you begin to change yourself to make it work.” And I realized - that is exactly what’s so wonderful about sex!
Every day, we are reminded of this need as we get turned on by various stimuli. And it is a need. We are biologically programmed to want it. We need it to create babies. We need it to get a real sense of closeness. Anyone who hasn’t experienced it before they die would probably have at least a strong curiosity as to what it would’ve been like! In fact, the human race need to have sex in order to survive!
So why did nature build this innate need into us? Wouldn’t it be easier to propagate the race if we could just reproduce on our own? Why do we have to go through this hassle just to survive?
As I sought an answer to this question, my mind drifted to memories of myself a few years ago. I was nearing the end of college, working hard in hopes of finding a good job. Most of my time was spent in a computer lab plugging away on various projects. I loved my work and the people I was doing it for. However, when things didn’t go my way and I got angry, I simply stopped talking to the people causing the anger - permanently. My position required no real need for other people, so this worked just fine. There was no real desire to consider their feelings or what they wanted.
Fast forward a year when my desire for sex and reproduction took over. I wanted to date people and get to know them better. All of a sudden, getting angry and complaining didn’t get me what I want anymore. “Hey!” I suddenly realized, “People don’t like to talk to people who get angry and complain to them all the time!” Then slowly, I started on the path of learning about human relations.
And that is exactly what sex does! It drives you to start understanding the perspectives of other people. Because there is something you want badly that somebody else has, you are forced to listen to what they want! You are obligated to try to understand their perspective. You have to give other people an incentive to give you want you want, and you can only do that by learning about what they want!
If we were all asexual beings, there would be no need for other people. There would be no driving force for people to cooperate and work together! We can just go about our day never understanding the ways we can help each other. It is no wonder that Napolean Hill claims sex to be the most important emotion! As we learn about the opposite sex, we learn more about people in general. We learn that people are different, and then learn to appreciate those differences. We learn that two people together can be greater than the sum of their parts!
Because of this, we can see why Hill would think sex is a much more important emotion than love. Sure, love allows you contribute positively to society, but only sex gives you the desire to learn about the other person. It makes you learn about what you should be giving, and forces you to adapt to fill that role. With only love, you might give things a shot, but at the end of the day, you don’t have to give everything you have to make it work. And giving everything you have is precisely what tends to make human relationships work well!
It’s a very amazing system that nature has created! We need sex to reproduce and survive as a species. Sex forces us to start considering other people’s perspectives. Those who are unable to do that are people who will be unable to find a mate! It’s almost like a rite of passage that says, “Only people who understand other people past a sufficient level has the right to continue existing (through their children)”.
In effect, sex is nature’s way of saying, “Work together! Or Die!”
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Your girlfriend phrase is nonsense. And people can live without sex at all. But not without love. Thats a fact.
I cant say your post is right or wrong because we all have various opinions but it definitely struck an interest for me to look more into the whole aspect of love.
I do however believe that, at least from personal experience and readings i have done that sex has a very positive impact on peoples happiness.
Keep up the posts.
i dunno bout emotion but i no i need to get off a lot or i get all grumpy
Its a little more complicated than that. I think sex is a very powerful driving force behind much of our actions, however, even without sex, humans still need to work together and form societies in order to survive. That is why we evolved language.
Humans are by nature very social creatures and that is why we are at the top of the animal kingdom. There are many other animals that live solitary lives, communicate very little with each other, and still have plenty of sex!
Tom, you are st00pid. People CAN’T live without sex; People CAN live without love. You are very DIM-WITTED!!! -Naul
I do not believe that this is a very accurate viewpoint. Sex is not difficult to come by. There are prostitutes, bar girls, booty calls, and various other ways that people can ‘get off’. The premise is ineteresting, but I believe that it is harder to find love, then to find sex. Also, I do not believe that people have to shift their perspectives to manipulate someone into their bed. Last, many people reproduce without establishing a close relationship with their mate. There are a lot of single mothers and fathers.
Perhaps I am missing the point. But, based on what I read this theory is incomplete.
The topic is titled ““Why Sex Is The Most Important Emotion”, NOT:
Love is Harder to Find than Sex, Made Up Facts About Sex and Love or We Need Both Sex and Love To Thrive.
The author simply made a point to say that it is the most IMPORTANT emotion. I’m 25 and have spent a good 1/3rd of my existence in a relationship. Not that its a lot but I have been in two 4+ year relationships and lost my V-card in my mid-teens. I’ve been active in both “games” and here’s what I can tell you…
Love: Is great. You need it for compassion, understanding and a sense of community. You need love for stability and for predictability. You need companionship? Turn to love. The problem is that love has some serious, serious drawbacks.
Love Drawbacks: Unbalanced love is unjust love. Have you ever loved someone more than they loved you? And knew it? Its miserable. Love allows you to put your guards down and when sh*t hits the fan, you become emotional. Why? Surprise. No one likes to be surprised. People that remain friends after breaking up are those that can tell you that “they kind of saw it coming…”. People will kill for love. Its much easier to fulfill sex than it is to fulfill love, therefore when you find “love”, you do not, and sometimes cannot, leave it. This is why you see couples that last a long time, but they’ll say something like “the last year was so shitty, but we had a good time”. People will hang on to bad-love longer than they will to good-sex. When was the last time you cried over a 1-night stand?
Sex Is Most Important: Sex provides the fuel for improvement. People become better “people persons” when they’re seeking “sex”. Have you ever heard those that decide to work out a ton, or eat healthy after someone breaks their heart? This is them getting ready for “sex”. How many times do you hear of someone gaining 20 lbs when they’re in stable relationships? Those that seek sex stay in better shape (FN1) ultimately, a more efficient society.
FN1: This is physically in better shape. Emotionally, Love and Sex have different effects on the psyche. This isn’t about the psychological effects of Love/Sex. Keep your eye on the ball.
People in shape are more productive individuals. Feel free to argue that one, but it might be a slippery slope, specially if you’re heavy.
Sex forces people to compromise more, be more open minded, more tolerant and accepting of others. It forces us to expose ourselves to more culture and more social interaction. You want the “sex” and you want it now. Regardless of whether you’re a heter-O or Hom-O, you will learn more about others and be more open-minded.
These are the building-blocks of human progression and the advancement of the human rance. Yes, we need to procreate, but we also need to be tolerant of each other. I say, if you promote diversity you should also be promoting “sex”.
Thoughts?
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Great post, brings up some interesting points. I laughed as I read JP’s post saying:
“Have you ever heard those that decide to work out a ton, or eat healthy after someone breaks their heart? This is them getting ready for “sex”.”
That’s pretty much me right now lol. The only thing is, I’m doing to try and win a girl back who I (stupidly) lost. Which brings me to another thing you said, JP:
“Unbalanced love is unjust love. Have you ever loved someone more than they loved you? And knew it? Its miserable.”
Yeah no kidding. But from my personal current experience, I want to win her back purely for love - I know that I can get more sex if I play the game for a while at university, but for some reason that’s not so attractive right now. I guess what I’m saying is love CAN be just as powerful an emotion, in the right circumstances.
Keep blogging great stuff!
why some people saying: that there no love w/o romance. i think romance in every relationship is not very important.
`there are so many ways to show your love once how much u love that person and not only make love or six to prove of your love.
mind blowing account . this bit of knowledge is very important thanks
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I agree with author 100%. 2 of the 2 most powerful things are Sex and death. Those are also what, if intensely and not fun! experienced can cause confusion and pstd.
Ppl can confuse sex with love. It’s okay to love during sex, as a matter of fact it is known to be a way to reach enlightenment- see tantric sex and kama sutra. Westerners perhaps may scoff occasionally, but we could learn something from these several thousand year old civilizations that are in India and Asia, like the Chinese. The arrogence of the Westerners sometimes amazes me.
Anyhoo, imagine sitting w/ the female rocking on the male’s ‘unit’, staring into each other’s eyes for 6 hours straight?
Sting is a purporter of Tantra. I think he’s awesome anyway. Unconditional love CAN be huge and powerful. Sex is for pleasure, for one thing. The biological part of us can be a good thing and obviously can be very strong, even if we don’t reproduce (going against biological clock for exp.). When I was 19 with my now hubby of 31 yrs. we went to the ultimate old blind man massuer. He was purported to have been requested by the Playboy Club to be their one on site. (Refused) He had a waiting list, he was so neat. I was having confusion and attempting to be chaste. I found out I was having a blockage in my sexual organs point. It dawned on me, if blocking sex can cause poor health (in my case I was in a committed long term relationship) then mother nature was trying to tell me something and I got over it. My honey and I were thusly much better off for it.
I could go on for the size of a book, (hmm, interesting thought)since I’ve been a Romance Specialist successfully with 1k’s of customer for almost 17 yrs so far, and could wax seemingly infinitly on the subject.
So please ppl, relax about sex being so powerful. Sincere love of life can be too, and more things, but it’s about time some ppl stopped minimizing the importance of an incredibly valuable thing.
It’s when it is abused sometimes that can give it a trivialized bad name.
Thanks for your forum.
namaste, cynthia etcheverry
~If I held you any closer, I’d be behind you-Groucho Marx~
If there’s a person out there who ever got more sex by intellectually analyzing the nature of sex, I’d be very interested in meeting him/her.
Steven
my comment is that having sex with girl means not real love because is not 4 sex
Honestly, I think it’s pointless.
All the people I’ve talked to have all agreed that once you have sex for the first time, you cant stop having it. it becomes the main thing in your life and it drives you to always look for more.
Yes, nature made us this way and etc BUT
for an “evolved species”, I think we are acting a bit too much like regular animals driven by their instinct to breed.
I agree on one thing, animals also feel love, yes, but us humans have a stronger mental capacity and so, I think the love we feel is also stronger.
WHY, I ask, are we still SO BASIC as to be driven by sex?
honestly, all i see around me is people desperate in some way to get it. i find it pathetic!
When I searched this on google, I thought someone would tell me “no, sex isn’t the most important thing in life, there are other priorities and other things to enjoy that can be more important, sex is only physical” and crap like that.
Guess not.
I’m truly disappointed.
=(
oh, and I also don’t believe sex is an emotion.
I am an ‘asexual being’. I have never had a desire for sex, and I have no sexual impulses. I have experimented to see if sex was some big glorious activity, and if I would suddenly understand why everyone always talked about it so much. The only thing I found out is that it did nothing for me. Sex just doesn’t interest me. That’s not to say that I don’t need other people. I have emotional needs which the same as other people; I need to feel loved, to be cared about, to be wanted, and I do work as hard as I can to make sure those needs are met.
I know how to appreciate other people, and how to work together, and I understand their uniqueness and differences. Other people are vital, and wondering how I can help other people is always on my mind. I’m not some clueless and selfish shut-in, and I am in no way undeveloped or an evolutionary throwback.
My existence disproves your whole argument.
An interesting concept - that sex is an emotion, and that it’s the most important of all! Big statement… Big! In all my years of training and working with emotions, feelings, behaviors and crises, I have never ever heard ’sex’ referred to as an emotion. It can be a pre-occupation, a distraction and an addiction. It is a distinction, an action, a drive and a desire - but not an emotion. It can be a feeling, but it is still not an emotion.
As to whether it is ‘most important of all’, that depends on who states it is so - personal justifications, perceptions, desires, longings, experiences - these all color ones view, opinion and stance.
Sex is a glorious experience in the ‘appropriate’ circumstances (whatever that is from individual to individual and one of the cruelest when forced on one. (Though there are others.)
Personally, I don’t think isex is the most important - this is just a myth and excuse for lack of control or responsibility, but then again, I have learned to control it to a degree, and have even practiced celibacy - but most people cannot get their heads around not having this ‘need’ met and usually by someone else.
Sexuality, identity, and even spirituality are closely related and they need to be balanced or at least in harmony for a healthy life. According to many respected writings, the ability to love, as well as the gathering of knowledge are important aspects that we take with us from this earthly life - [though interestingly enough, we don't get to take (or have) sex on the other side apparently. Despite the promises of vestal virgins to certain sects of the population.
Whether this is true or not does not count.]
What does count is this - if sex is the important driving force to change, negotiate, improve, assist,care for or simply to be interested in others, then god help our children - for what does a loving mother give to her child if its tainted like this? Ridiculous.
And most young girls don’t render up their virginity for sex, but rather for what they see as ‘love’.
It appears to me that as usual, thinking with one’s anatomy is taking place yet again.
Give it a rest - it’s not all about sex!
Personal Development should surely be about seeing what is under this ‘important’ focus on sex?!?!
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I agree with this post to some extent. Although, your message was lost in the perplexity of the word “SEX”. Many people feel that this is strictly physical.
I have to say that I am currently changing my entire life because of this drive. But its not just the need to have sex. I can easily have sex right now if I really wanted to but I choose not to.
My drive and need is due to the intimacy that sex brings. I want to find someone for this but it cannot be just anyone. It has to be the right person. So, i’m changing my entire life and moving away to find this. I need to fulfill this or else I wont be happy. Just the progress of changing, alone, is enough to keep me happy and keep me striving towards that goal.
So, I can definitely see where you are coming from. Its a deep need that all of us share. People say that you can’t die if you don’t have this intimacy. I think you do. I think it might make you a little depressed, thus lessening the years of your life.
I believe that love like sex are both acts of doing something. Out of love we show acts of kindness toward someone. Love allows us to be able to show multipul acts of kindness, towards someone that we have an emotional feeling for, whether that is a feeling of brotherhood, sister hood, friendship, pitty, or an erotic emotion. For we say we love our family, even when they dont always get things right, the act of love which shows itself as forgiveness plays it part in every relationship. Sex i feel is the by product of all those emotional sensation that we feel when love is poured into our lives by someone we are attracted to and its purpose is to help us grow closer to each other, to provide a safe an secure environment to bring forth children, which is the result of having sex.
You do realize that sex is not an emotion. Lust is the word that you are searching for. The author says that sex is the only reason humans work together or get to know one another. If that were true no one would have any friends that they weren’t attracted to. I am a male with male friends, but I’m not gay. So if sex is the only reason humans get to know one another then how does the author explain that? Am I secretly attracted to them?
lets be honerable no sex outside marriage
You’re Wong.
Sorry! I don’t feel sex is an important emotion.
Wife and I hadn’t had sex an approx 25 years. They say men are wired for sex. My wires must be hooked differently. I’m just not into it. I don’t like being touched, or intimacy also. Been married 40 plus years and maybe had sex 30 times in my entire life. My wife on the other hand enjoys sex! She has been upset, depressed and all those other female emotions all our married life.
Sex is good, but sex without love is nonsense. Unemotional sex (sex without love) is not it - anyway, or who are you kidding, yourself?
So basically in order to create new life you need to input love into it - beside sex… If everything would be done like this - inputing love into technology or whatever, new order on earth would come - as it will very soon… I think we reached the end with current consciousness and will be soon everything different…
The creators of humans (prehistoric creator or his extended gods) left the sex (aka peak of it - the orgasm) as the only and most natural trigger to get to the higher state of ourself and this is the state we should be in it all the time and even higher…
Not that you can’t come to this state with meditation, but not everybody meditates as most human beings have sex..
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I don’t like to flame people or anything, but this whole article seems rather silly. You seem to honestly believe that the only reason people interact is to get laid. I would call that a very jaded, mercenary view of humankind, but you seem so blithely sincere. Now, I have a sex drive, but I would NEVER change myself, rearrange my life, or engineer an interpersonal relationship just to quench a bit of lust. That would be utterly ridiculous and serve no purpose whatsoever. I will, however, come clean on this matter: I’m a socially phobic shutin, so I do fall outside the mainstream. But all the same, I have family members and even a few friends I would die for; and one of my passions in life is learning the innermost secrets of others’ beautiful and alien souls, if I can do so in an unintrusive manner. I feel that the first step in making the world a better place is to understand how it’s currently operating on the most personal levels. If you were to assume a lascivious motive in any of that, you would have to label me as a very disturbed pansexual. Please don’t.
Indeed, considering your implications logically, wouldn’t this most powerful of emotions compel us ONLY to cooperate with/listen to/understand those we wished to mate with, and possibly those who could directly influence our potential mates to choose us? I would really hate to live in such a world.
Okay…maybe I’m also spoiled a bit, which taints my perspective. I’ve been aware since my early teens that girls with figures like mine can (and are in some cases encouraged to!) discard their virginity at any moment they wish, so I have never experienced the sense of urgency you imply. Still, I remain convinced that even if that moment never comes, unfulfilled lust will be the least of my regrets at the end of my life.
@Paul–It’s kind of refreshing to see a man who isn’t controlled by his lower body!
And I completely understand the distaste for touch. I’d maybe worry if your wife doesn’t handle that lifestyle well, though. I’d imagine there must be something can be done to help her handle the urges without putting you in a massively uncomfortable situation, though I’m not creative enough to think of anything specific at the moment. ^_^;
I think love and the feeling of being cared is more important. Yes, sex has it’s benefits but they only last for so long (self estteem, stress management, pleasure etc. etc.)There’s nothin like comin home after a rough day and seeing the person you truely love and forgeting everything else.
I was a virgin until meeting my ex girlfriend (20 years.) Before she stole my v-card from me we hung out almost everyday for a year. And it was the best time of my life, I was more outgoing, determined, higher self esteem etc. etc. Before we had sex for the first time. We both admitted meeting eachother helped get rid of eachother’s depression problems. A one night stand wouldn’t have done this for her or me. It would of made me act like a dush bag.
But, Charlie Sheen would probaby disagree with me.
Aaron
Sex should be held off until marriage. thats the way God intended it but here in this messed up world you have people sleeping around and this is why you have diseases like aids, and single mothers and lots of other messed up situations. noone cares about the consequences. my thing is, wait until you actually fall in love with the person, and then when you are positive you want to be with this person forever, then have sex. the sex will not only be “safe”, but it will be much more wonderful then any lame one night stand. because you are haveing sex with someone you love, its a much more satifying experience.
I find a LOT to be wrong with this post.
On one hand, I almost don’t even want to waste my time with this, but there are some things I simply cannot not say.
First of all, sex is not an emotion. Neither is love.
Furthermore, you failed to adequately define what you consider “love,” “sex,” and even “emotions” to be, and therefore most of your statements are ambiguous and not concrete.
If sex is the only thing that brings people together, then why do people put so much time and energy into friendships and familial relationships?
And your statement about “if we were all asexual beings” brings even more light to your ignorance. Asexual people do exist, and they are not asocial. The absence of sexual desire does not make them or their relationships all so different as you might suppose. They do have just as deep emotional desires as anyone else and want to and do bond in their own ways.
And you can CERTAINLY understand others perspectives and be drawn to form connections without wanting to have sex with them.
@Sam
On the one hand… you failed to mention whats on the other hand… do you have only one hand?
Love is an emotion. If you want definition try a dictionary, its not his job to explain the meaing of words. As for sex being an emotion, this is what some might call an attempted simile.
As for his statement being ambiguous AND not concrete… what did you mean by ‘not concrete’? Did you mean ambiguous? hmm…
Pretty old post but recent comments so… If you are going to use an evolutionary basis (which I do appreciate) you should probably get the whole story. First, evolutionary fitness is composed of growth, survival, and reproduction; you must invest in all three to succeed evolutionarily. Second, sexual desire seems more like a homeostatic emotion (like pain or hunger it is a current desire) while love is clearly a classic emotion (like fear and happiness which are concerned with future conditions, e.g. will I have food or sex when I next desire it).
So, I am not sure it is even possible to compare the two (is happiness more important than pleasure?) but I will frame it in this way: is the primary drive for one component of fitness (reproduction) more important than the secondary drive for all three (as social organisms romantic love aims for a mixture of high growth, survival, and reproduction).
Additionally, as social organisms even asexual love motivates many of the traits you mention (i.e. cooperation) due to increased future survival or growth (or even reproduction, just not with the target individual)
Cheers,
Stephen
P.s. To answer your initial motivation, sexual reproduction has many costs but its advantage is an increased rate of adaptation due to genetic mixing each generation.
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I hated going to work every day to see the sniveling little weasel that cheated to get his current position. When I say cheated, I mean literally, he started an affair with the female director (while they were both married) and despite the fact that my abilities were stronger he got the job I wanted. I found thelordofspell@live.com and had a Lose his job revenge spell cast. About a week later he was fired for undisclosed reasons (rumor has it he gave her herpes!)
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Just wanted to thank you and let you know how much you have helped me. I followed the ”The Magic Of Making Up” after a very bitter breakup of a two-year plus relationship (my first since my divorce from a 21-year marriage). It started out being one of the most difficult things I have ever attempted in my life and after the initial two weeks I started feeling stronger each day and better about myself. My ex sent me an apology email three weeks in …By now, I had the strength to actually “sleep on it” and sent him a response the next day…within seconds he called me and asked to see me and was crying because he was glad I was talking to him. We are starting out very slowly again as friends (which is difficult for me since I am still deeply in love with him). An interesting note is this is a long distance relationship and your program still worked!! I am so happy to have him in my life again.
Thanks again,DR CHECK templeoflove1@gmail.com
After being in relationship with her for seven years, she left me, i did everything possible to bring her back back but all was in vain. I want her back because of the love I have for her, I begged her with everything, I tried to entice her with money, made promises but she refused. I explained my problem to someone online and he suggested that I should rather mail a spell caster that could help me cast a spell to bring her back but I am the type that never believe in spell, I had no choice than to try it, I mailed the spell caster, he told me there was no problem that everything will be okay before three days, that my ex will return to me before three days, he cast the spell and surprisingly in the second day, that was around 4:00pm. My ex called me, I was so surprised, I answered the call and all she said was that she was so sorry for everything that happened, that she wanted to return to me, that she love me so much. I was so happy and told her to come, she came to me the following day and we started living together again. Since then I have made a promise that everybody I know will never have a relationship problem that I will refer them to the spell caster t help them. Anybody could need the help of the spell caster, his email is ( templeofdravegmas1@gmail.com) you can email him if you need his assistance in your relationship or anything. He also cast different kinds of spell like, money back spell, good luck spell and many more. Just try and contact him if you need his assistance.
“DR CHECK, I must thank you and Real Gifted Spells. I can honestly see why I was referred to you. This year 2009 was real dreadful, because my man left me before Valentines Day. When I purchased your Triple Love Obsession spell and that potion he began calling me the very next day and testing me 12 times. We spoke and saw each other later that week. He was telling me how much he missed me, he was thinking of me throughout everyday and he told me he loves me and wanted to come back home…. THANK YOU!” …. EMAIL:templeofdravegmas1@gmail.com
I want to express my gratitude for the extensive work you have done over the past week. It was a pleasant feeling a lot of warmth and peace flowed through to me I believe. I felt immediately calmer when the you cast the magic spell and the feeling stayed with me through-out the next couple of weeks. I wish to convey that I have received my results this morning. I was shy to return the talisman to nature and I must tell you I could feel a pulse from it. Or a slow rhythmic juddering. A vibration even, to the extent I can hold it; and I feel the imprint of the vibration in my hand when I take it out again, as this is my first ever experience doing anything like this I feel the need to record every moment of it. I look forward to the next chapter in this my spell and help work. Dear Aisha thank you indeed. EMAIL: templeoflove1@gmail.com
this spell caster i met online on this email address (priestessmunak@gmail.com) has so much helped me more than i can ever imagine,
This spell caster was the one that did a spell on my husband that made him return home because my husband was cheating on me and i never liked that because things were never like this when i married and all of a sudden he changed and started keeping late nights, but with the spell of this spell caster, he returned home and started apologizing to me and the kids to accept him and for his truly sorry for hurting us.. though i was surprise see things change to normal, i was very glad also.
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i am very pleased to say things are going well, I truly believe the spell has made all of the difference, thanks so much for all of his help, he is officially back in my life. I will definitely tell everybody to use his service, I am a believer! thelordofspell has is real,
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I was crushed when my lover of three years left to be with another woman. I cried and sobbed every day, until it got so bad that I reached out to the Internet for help. I threw away so much money - all for nothing - until I hit on the real thing. And that is you, wildernessofspirit spell. You were different from all the rest - you are the diamond in the rough. Thank you from the depths of my soul! I am extremely happy now. I hope God blesses you as much as He has blessed me. Love,wildernessofspirit@gmail.com
Hello every one,my name is Lisa glover i have been in a relationship problem for the past 2years but now and a friend of mine Sonia introduced me to a witch doctor which his Name is “Dr Wala and immediately after contacting the spell caster,my relationship problem was over but i only abide by his rules and regulations. But now am glad to be together with my fiance again.You too can contact this witch doctor for any kind of situation you have found yourself and i promise all your problems will be over. You can contact him via :wildernessofspirit@gmail.com
Hello,Dr.Zack Balo i want to thank you for the returning spell you did for me my girl friend is back to me after using you returning love spell thank you so much,i we never forget this great happiness you brought to my life.from christian i am so grateful, if you are in need of this powerful spell caster you can reach him through this Email address:wiseindividualspell@gmail.com
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I have tried other spellcasters, but no one has such a strong connection to magic. This last one that i gave a try on Her love spell worked more powerfully for me than any other spellcaster I had ever worked with. In fact, her results were so much better that I may never need another love spell again…I am asking my girlfriend to marry me and she is not declining! Thank you, the email of the spell caster is priestessmunak@gmail.com, for bringing love into my life and for being the best at what you do.
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I just met this man spell caster called Dr.Zack balo online on wiseindividualspell@gmail.com. a neighbor reffed me to him saying that he is a great man when it comes to spell and when i tried it out, he did all i have been looking for from spell caster with in 3days and i started seeing results. i think he is pure and real because the spell he cast for my husband to return worked so perfectly.
my testimony all thank to wildernessofspirit i was in love with a girl named Rita i was in deepening in love with her i have treed my best to get her, on till i meant this man named Dr.Wala expending eventing thing to he, him toed me that my problem is solve but i ask him her is that possible him toed me that i shod not worry again that my problem is over than he cast a spell on her to love me supplier she fowl in love with me so i us very happy she is back to me thank you email to contact him EMAIL:wildernessofspirit@gmail.com
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i am Brana i lives in Slovakia and i was in a serious relationship with my ex guy for three good years..One day we were in a dinner party, we had a little misunderstanding which lead to a quarrel and he stood up and left me at the dinner party.i try to call him but he was not picking my calls so after than i contacted my brother and told him about it,my brother so much love me that he had to see him on my behalf,he told my brother that it is over between us..then i contacted a friend of mine that had this similar experience and she directed me to one of the spiritual diviner (wiseindividualspell@gmail.com).at first i thought it was not going to be possible and i contacted him i was ask to come up with a little requirement,so i did what i was ask to do, after 3 days i was in my office when my ex guy called me and was asking me to forgive him and come back to him.i was very surprise it was like a dream to me,so ever since we have been happily married with one kid my lovely baby(Ceslav)…i wish you the best of luck…
I have been scammed so many times by false spell casters until 1 of my friends told me about Dr.Zack Balo I found him to be honest and true and he delivered me results exactly on the date he promised me. My life changed after that. I had purchased a return lover spell and it worked. If you want to try him his email is wiseindividualspell@gmail.com
A co-worker of mine’s told me to go to priestessmunak@gmail.com because I went to some other spell caster’s and nothing worked to get my wife back. I felt all was lost, but priestessmunak stepped in after I got a phone consultation from her. SHe saw the problem and told me when things fell apart. I had him to cast the Obstacle Breaker and Ultimate Return My Lover Spell X 3 since things was blocking my wife to come to me and after the spells was casted later my wife came back to me. I’m a man of my word, so I had to spread the news to let other’s know who helped me…. priestessmunak@gmail.com is a spell caster”
I just wanted to let everyone know how much the spell caster i met wiseindividualspell@gmail.com results spell produced meant to me. I actually got my finance back! He came back and he is a new man. He apologized and said he wants to work things out.
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I have come to realize that there are solutions to every problems when i got referred to Dr. Dova Saga i was obsessed and i couldn’t take the humiliation anymore, he cast a spell for me and now you need to see me, he also cast a spell for my finances and my love life. email him on dovasagawhitemagictemple@yahoo.com, thank me later…lol
My Name is GODWIN..I never believed in Love Spells or Magics until I met this special spell caster once when i went to Africa to Execute some business..He is really powerful.The woman i wanted to marry left me 2 weeks to our weeding ceremony and my life was upside down.she was with me for 4 years and i really love her so much..she left me for another man with no reason..when i called her she never picked up my calls and she don’t want to see me around her…so,when i told the man what happened.he helped me to do some readings,and after the readings he made me to realize that the other man has done some spells over my wife and that is the reason why she left me..he told me he will help me to cast a spell that bring her back.At first i was skeptical but i just gave it a try…In 4 days,she called me herself and came to me apologizing..I cant believe she can ever come back to me again EMAIL:ayelalashrine@yahoo.com.CALL THIS NUMBER+23408155427473
Am very sorry to judge you before i used your services, i really praise your powers,Doc guess what? my treason court case was dismissed, and another surprise i won a casino jackpot of R 500.000.00
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Help me to give thanks to Omigodo for bringing back my love to me after two day any bidy in this kind of problem should contact him on his email: templeofsolution@gmail.com or contact him on his phone number +2348079367204
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i am richeal, i am from usa, 5years back i engage with a man, 3years back, i have a brake up with him cos of i have no job.so i seek for help, later on i saw a man in spellcaster who adverse and told me what to do, later on i went home to do what the man ask me to do. befor i no my problem was solved. if u are looking for help i we adverse u to meet this man at lovespelltemple@yahoo.com. he we find a solution to your problem. am greatful to have a such man like that. Thanks you for helping me.
I can tell you that with respect to the “attract a new love”, something really strange’ is happening. Its Bizarre! Someone I haven’t seen in 17 yrs has just made contact wanting to come into my life on a romantic level. Well it certainly sounds that way! I’m too frightened to open up on a “relationship love” level so we will see if this person helps heal that.
I am so lost for words at the moment! This is one story alright - My god, I wouldn’t know where to start if you asked me to tell you the story. This all happened within 2 days and I actually feel quite comfortable with hearing someone telling me how they feel about me. 16 years of it!!! Whether it takes me, I feel I am now open!
I’m just blown away at the moment because he says he has been looking for me for a very long time and finally found me. I was thinking to myself “mmmm, im allowing it to come in now, so the timing was really good” (off course with the aid of the spell you cast for me). Im really excited and I thank you very much.
I’m honored and Blessed to have met you wiseindividualspell@gmail.com.
Thank you so much and I’m so grateful you crossed my path because the way this incident has happened is truly magical. Whether its ‘new love’ or not, its truly amazing and certainly a confirmation that there are no such things as coincidences!
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can believe what happen to me it is like a mystery on the 24 may 2011 i was listening to BBC NEWS. when they interview spritspelltemple@yahoo.com about how are magical powers came about and how he cast a spell and the powers behind the spell.
and how she bring back love one so easy. when i head about the wonders i quickly contact he through her e-mail address. i told he that my husband left me to date another lady. he told me that i should not worry all is well so he cast a spell. a week latter HUGSON came back to me crying that i should for give him.spritspelltemple@yahoo.com is the world best caster. i am andelia i want to tell every that i have found the real spell caster and that he have just helped me get my husband back to me and the kids.
people i was scam before and i was afraid to trust any spell caster.now that i have found a genius and a real spell caster, he cast a spell for me that brought my lover back to me. i am just too grateful to him for he has brought smile back to my face again. you can check him out for your on wiseindividualspell@gmail.com.just do what he says for he is real.
Thanks to Omigodo for bringing back my love one in just 2days and he also helped me by given me promoting in my job as I am speaking to you now I am the. Bank manager of Bnp paribas bank in one of the branch in London he is great contact him ; Omigodoshrine@hotmail.co.uk OR his phone number +2348068439172 he is very helpful
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